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How can you determine what your own comfort zone is? Simple. If you are comfortable saying "Hi" to women at a shopping mall, for instance, but get very frightened when trying to indicate to a girl that you find her attractive after saying "Hi", you have just left your comfort zone.
A comfort zone could be an environment that you are most comfortable in, such as a loud bar where there are a lot of women who you have the least amount of trouble approaching.
It's time to start going out of your comfort zone area and start figuring out ways to slowly build up your courage to attack your fears in new and exciting ways. Let's analyze approach problems that cannot be controlled by you and then we can figure out new ways of eliminating those problems that you can control.
Something you must be aware of when beginning your first approaches is the fact that there are many mitigating circumstances that occur in a woman's mind when you use an opener on them that they are not suspecting.
These issues cannot be controlled by you and even when you are looking your most handsome and have put you best foot forward, these girls have issues within themselves that can mess up your initial game plan with them.
MOST WOMEN HAVE SELF-DOUBT ISSUES
I think women suffer from the same thing that all people suffer from, regardless of their perceived high or low social status, and that is self-doubt. Self-doubt can happen to anyone and at anytime, to the most beautiful woman on the planet as well as to the least attractive woman on Earth.
If a woman you are approaching happens to be having problems with body issues whereupon she feels her thighs are too big, she will turn down any offer from an attractive guy for an instant date because she does NOT want him to freak out when he sees how fat her thighs are, even though they in reality look great to the naked eye.
A lot of your approach anxiety can also be attributed to the way you feel about yourself in the split second you see a gorgeous woman walking your way.
If you are stricken with a sudden wave of panic when upon seeing a HB9 (Hot Babe on a scale of 1-10) looking you, you are probably thinking to yourself, "Why would this girl want to talk to me?"
A HOT WOMAN JUST MIGHT WANT YOU TO TALK TO HER- SO DO IT!
You just have to stop thinking negatively about yourself and instead start pushing yourself out of your comfort zone by just saying anything at all to her. That girl is looking at you out of her own curiosity about who you are, so if that's the case just say the first thing that pops into your head, no matter what it is.
A woman's self-doubt about herself can manifest itself in your conversation with her if she believes you are much more superior than she is in intellect or if she believes you have a LOT more social value than she does.
A woman will even turn you down first if she thinks she's not good enough for you. That's just the way self-doubt emotions control outcomes. Better to keep moving to your next approach and detach yourself from the outcome at ALL times.
A successful seduction game hinges on the amount of approaches you manage per day; no matter what skill level you happen to be on at the moment. Women's self-doubt issues are just one of the many negative equations that you have no control over on your initial approach with a hot girl.
Learn to deal with it by upping the amount of approaches you do every day as well as push yourself out of your comfort zone on a weekly basis.
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