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Someone who is successful at something is someone that creates goals and achieves them. The first goal for anyone who will become an adulterous is to not get caught. Getting caught should be considered the ultimate failure as an adulterous. The second goal is eliminate suspicion quickly and intelligently. Suspicion is easily the fastest way to fail at your primary goal. With suspicion your partner will become more aware of what you are doing, even creating situations where they might be checking up on you. The final goal for any successful adulterous is to always have an alibi. Having an alibi at all times will always reduce or eliminate suspicion which will reduce or eliminate the chance of being caught. We know the goals, not get caught, fight suspicion, and always have an alibi. Let’s start off with how to manage an alibi. Think about what you do during your average day. Do you work? Are you a stay at home spouse? It really does not matter it’s about what you do while you are away from your spouse. The best situation is to create a place you can go to that the spouse has no visibility of. Examples would be, you go to the Gym but your spouse does not, it’s the perfect spot, you have to work out hard there, you will be sweaty and you have an excuse of taking a shower before you get home. Another place is the golf course, the spa, and of course the going out with friends from work. Places that don’t really work are places where you have no excuse to have to clean up when getting home or before getting home. The bars work great because it can be crowded, hot, and possibly smoky. Many things can happen at the bar like “I could not believe it, this person spilled there drink down my shirt”. Bad places are the grocery store, the mall, and the park (it just sounds weak). Regardless of how careful you are with your alibi suspicion can be a killer. You have to be aware of the simplest things, including smell. A spouse who has lived with you awhile can instantly detect a change in fragrance, including someone else’s fragrance. Always carry a match of your deodorant, cologne, or perfume with you. It will seem odd at first, but a quick perfume bath can change a situation drastically but when the questions do start, tell them you were shopping for them and they will ruin the surprise also you better go get something. The next are visual bite marks, scratches, blemishes, hair, and lipstick among many things. Lipstick is a tuff one, you need to take evasive action and create a story of where you are the hero. Good hero story was “This girl came for me and would not back down, she was crazy, I hated it”. If this works your golden, but if not, you need to push the fact that she was crazy and you just wanted to leave. Hair is a tuff one, if you go to the gym say you left your locker open and someone was in it, if you have no excuse for that say it must have come off the floor when you were using the restroom, it’s nasty and ridiculous but it will work. Scratches and marks can be anything, was working in the whatever and rubbed against something, they usually work, but play it off, don’t go into depth, just be surprised. Finally bite marks are the hardest, your best bet was to tell your spouse they bite harder than you think, if you are not having relations with your spouse at all, and it will be difficult to create an excuse for bit marks on you. Finally, do not get caught, plan where you will be and when you will be. Parking your car in the street within plain view of the street at any time is a very bad idea. You have no idea who will drive by and how will spot you. Never use your cell phone, too many ways to get caught using a cell phone. Your cell phone bill, your history, unexpected calls, and unexpected text messages. Grab a 10$ phone with simple ways to recharge minutes and you are golden just make sure you don’t leave the phone in a bad place. Clothing is the next big thing. Creating a situation where you need to change can be risky, I do not suggest it. Finally, all relationships should be with people you do NOT know, that do not know where you live and possibly know little about you, it’s easier that way when you find your next partner. You have the knowledge now and you know the methods but now it’s the tools. A create resource to meet partners that you do not know and are looking for exactly what you are is very important. I personally use some websites which I will come to in a bit. The web is a great place, I can create a new email address, sign-up, and try out finding partners. Most websites offer a free 30 days to see if you like them. I will admit, I tried a lot of websites and have my favorite but you should sign up with the popular ones, try it for 30 days free and see which one you have most success with. I suggest filling your profile out honestly. I have found most people feel way more comfortable being with someone who is married then is not married. Another huge benefit is, LOOKS ARE NOT EVERYTHING. Yeah it’s true, most partners I have been with are gorgeous but were more interested in getting out with someone new and going on an adventure then how my 6 pack is now a 1 pack. Finally, have fun, go out, and send messages out. It’s time to experience the new you without throwing away everything you worked for with your current spouse.
Finally, the tools I use. I suggest checking out their 30 day trails and seeing what you find. The charges to your credit card are extremely generic and untraceable. I Googled the name of each charge and nothing came up. Check out my site www.how2cheat.net for more information and for all the tools I used www.how2cheat.net#Sites
Mark Hatcher all rights reserved.
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