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If you have suffered a breakup, you know the real pain longing to get your ex back. But how to get an ex back? What must you say? What should you never do? How do you get them to see you? Below are some of the secrets you must learn on how to get your ex back.
They Want You Back.
You may not believe this right now, but it is true. The strangest animals on earth are humans. Humans need what is familiar. People refuse to adopt change. They may be fed up and angry, but remove the offending emotions, and they want to you as much as you want them.
If the two of you have any history together, they do not want to seem as though they wasted x number of years. They will instead justify the time they spent with you, and the break up, in their own mind.
This is a key secret. No body likes to be thought of as inconsistent or a hypocrite. We are not wired that way. That is why everyone justifies to themselves what they do. Humans must justify that they acted within their own belief structure, and will explain it to anyone who will listen. You know exactly what your ex believes. This knowledge alone can get your ex back if you execute it correctly.
Appealing to someone in the same way they justify things to themselves is very powerful.
Surely you have listened to HOW your ex talks. What do they say when they make a decision? Do they use picture words and phrases, like; I can see that, I get the picture, clear something up, etc. Do they use hearing words and phrases, like; I hear you, that rings a bell, sounds good to me. Do they use feeling words and phrases like; I feel what you are saying, I can't get my head around that, I am not feeling that, I get a feel for what you mean.
This is how their subconscious thinks. If it was a decision they were happy with, they more than likely used a combination of these. Recall at least three examples, they always use the same order don't they. This is very important. Simply tell your ex the decision you want them to make in the order they can process it.
For example. Imagine the order your ex uses to make a good decision is visual, feeling, sound. They see an image of it. They see if it feels right. They say to themselves this is good. They take action. If you wanted them to meet with you for coffee, you should say, in ORDER. Can you SEE yourself meeting me for coffee? I know we will both FEEL great about it. Does tomorrow at three SOUND good?
This may not sound, look, or feel persuasive to you, but it is not your order. It is theirs. You will have to use you ex's order, and if done properly, the two of you will meet.
This is only one technique you must learn on how to get an ex back. You have to develop a plan of action. When to do what, what to say, and what to do. There is hope. You can learn how to get your ex back.
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