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There's a lot of talk around about lengthy, all-nighters, about the need for extended foreplay to get things fired up, the use of sex toys and switching positions thirty five times to extend the play time. Now, there’s nothing wrong with extended sexual escapades, they’re positively needed in any sexually active relationship. However, let’s not forget about the lesser known champion, the 'quickie'.
There are many men who think that nearly all women don't get off on these speedy encounters, or that women aren’t fulfilled by them. This idea, as unfortunately common as it is, is far from the truth. But on the other side of the coin, a lot of women out there assume that asking for a crazy sexual get-together over the couch or in a clean public restroom will make them seem sleazy or dirty. Please, don't think in this manner. Men that think less of women for wanting to convey her sexuality and her desire to be with him in non-standard places are the exception to the rule.
The common woman, while pleasuring herself, can reach orgasm in less than 3 minutes, that same woman can arrive at the same objective in just under eight minutes from intercourse. Attach the emotional intensity of a quickie in the back seat of a car, and the further thrill of possibly someone catching you will often assist the participants in attaining the final outcome even more quickly. This means that in most cases a woman can be plenty satisfied by end of a speedy session, and even if time runs out before either or both are able to reach orgasm it’s still fun and can add some excitement to your day.
Sex toys also have the ability to augment the ‘quickie’ experience as they don’t always have to be completely spur-of-the-moment. For couples who are practiced users of sex toys, or anybody who wants to try something new, keep a mini sex toy or two with you next time you go out for the day. Carrying a travel sized, discrete sex toy on you gives you many more options for entertainment when the feeling strikes. There are sex toys that vibrate (which should typically only be used in areas where there is a lot of noise which can easily be used on both women and men, another option are ‘fingers’ which are more often than not rubber and are put on the tip of your fingers and are bumpy or have ridges for added pleasure. In addition, you can get sex toys that are made to be used on men only such as special gloves used to improve hand stimulation.
There are many popular places to enjoy your partner’s company, some include:
•Against the fridge
•Discretelyon an overnight bus
•In the office
•In a public bathroom (one that’s not dirty)
•In the forest on a hike
•Or whenever you’re feeling frisky!
So remember, chiefly for you shy women out there, don’t be shy, let your partner know when you're in need of some love and let those creative juices flow! Often times the best sex can be quick sex in a random, never-before used place at 3:28 p.m.
The Sex Toy Guy at The Sex Toy Life, sex toy retailer of premium dildos.
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