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Your wife's libido is directly connected to her self esteem.You can improve her libido by helping her with her self esteem. There are endless ways to let your wife know that she is special. Getting to know her as though you just met can play a major roll. Think of when you had your first date. It is very likely you left no stone unturned to impress her. You both were probably steeped in deep passion. Her libido was probably at an all time high. Your marriage may have slowed down and you aren't feeling that special spark anymore, which is the reason you are reading this. Perhaps the connection between you has become stagnant. Your marriage is experiencing a slump. As a result, her libido is in the dumps
Your acceptance of her directly affects her self esteem If you accept her for who she is without reservations, she will flourish. Work on changing your thoughts to how you can love her more. Changing the way you act towards her will create an environment where she can grow. Then her libido will increase as her feelings of love increase.
This is your opportunity to stir things around and to get your creative "make my wife swoon" juices going. It begins with small romantic acts.
1. Tell her, "I love you," but back up the words with loving actions: gaze into her eyes, hug her tightly, and just snuggle for a while.
2. Leave her a post-it note the words "I love you" written on it where you can be sure that she will discover it.
3. You should make sure to complement her and say things like, "You are so beautiful, sweetheart."
4. Something as simple as brushing her hair will truly wow her; gently stroke the brush through her hair and she will let you know how she likes it.
Note: Of course, have no expectations, otherwise, you're not doing it for her - you're doing it for you; and she will feel it.
5. Be astute, watch how she prepares her coffee in the morning / breakfast / juice and prepare it for her the next morning and every morning from there on. To get a huge gain in future spend atl east five minutes daily. (If she says it's not right, let her know you'll take it into account, and change the way you prepare it. Consult how to build trust.)
6. Take the kids somewhere else, reasoning to her that you want to give her a break. She will be ecstatic.. If she is comfortable planning it for another day, let her know that you are flexible and to just let you know when it works best for her.
7. Run a bath for her, burn a few candles, prepare her a pleasant drink. Allow her to relax, with no interruptions whatsoever. Let her know your actions are only done with her in mind, and she should call on you if she needs anything. Proceed only after she makes contact with you or moves on herself. Again a reminder, focus on her.
8. Burn her a compact disc that has all of her favorite songs.
9. * Send her a "I'm thinking of you" card with a handwritten note that says: "I just wanted you to know that you are always on my mind, my precious Love.Don't be afraid to speak whatever you may know will make her feel fantastic.
These are but a few examples of actions you can take. She might ask and think about why you are doing these things. Simply reply to her that you are working on becoming more attentive to her because you feel lucky to have her in your life.
Do these things to make her feel unique and loved, to make her feel number one. As she is your wife,imbibe in her the feeling that she is the most special person in your life and for the rest of the life. This is pleasure and NOT work. Whenever you do these things,you should take great pleasures in her smile and should also make her feel happy and special. She will respond to you in a more trustworthy, open, and passionate manner. The fire you feel will increase with time - along with her libido.
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