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With a number of families deciding against traditional christenings in favour of non religious ceremonies, more children are being welcomed into the world in a civil ceremonial called a naming ceremony.
So what exactly is a naming ceremony?
A naming ceremony is similar to a christening in that it is a celebration of a baby’s arrival surrounded by supportive individuals, godparents are chosen although they are called ‘supporters’ and the choice of baby’s outfit can be a baptismal robe if so desired. The differences, however, are greater than just a choice of wardrobe. Humanist ceremonies are strictly ‘non religious’ secular affairs, featuring no hymns, bible readings or church settings. They are very popular with those who have no religious affiliations or those whose inter-faith families could feel alienated by the choice of one faith over another.
Most naming ceremonies are organised by the British Humanist Association and as Hanne Stinson of BHA explains "Naming ceremonies are a lovely way of marking the birth of a baby and can be tailored to suit the family concerned”. She also describes the variations of a service, “Parents can put together their own service including poetry, music and readings and the venue can be anywhere - in your own home, at a castle or outdoors."
Humanists believe that life is about human experience and is not God-given. They don’t believe in an after life and instead believe that life should be as fulfilling as it can be, whilst you are alive. Events like naming ceremonies have become remarkably dignified and totally personal affairs for the family and friends involved and lack the sometimes cumbersome traditional aspects of a church blessing or christening.
So what actually happens on the day?
The BHA can be a real help to those wishing to arrange a ceremony or naming day. They can give advice on venues, the choosing of mentors or supporters (the humanist equivalent of godparents), write sample scripts and work out the frame work the service will take.
Once you have chosen your venue, invited your guests and decided on reading or music etc, you’re ready.
Your chosen celebrant (these can be found from the BHA or could be a family friend) leads the proceedings, makes the welcomes and introductions and then either performs or requests that those in attendance take part in a reading. The reasons behind the chosen name of the child are often announced and promises from the parents and supporters for the child’s future happiness make an affectionate addition to a conventionally formal affair.
Gifts are usually exchanged at the ceremonies by way of a keepsake such as a bespoke gift that can incorporate the child’s name and date of the ceremony or a silver charm bracelet, something that can be retained by the parents as a tangible memory of the day and the promises they have made.
Most parents would agree that what ever ceremony they choose, if the event is enjoyable and memorable, religion doesn’t have to play a part. Naming ceremonies have increased in the last decade due to their embrace of diversity and choice; with more parents opting to go the non religious route, I think we will be seeing a lot more naming ceremonies in the future.
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