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I’m writing today abut a fairly broad topic involving some of my favorite tings; sex, women, and porn. I know most of you guys are probably wondering why I choose to write about porn and sex. Well I’m a normal adult human just the same as you guys are. I enjoy the same types of things including filthy raunchy sex and of course sports. I know many men try fruitlessly for years to get their female partners into viewing pornography with them and even sometimes trying some of the things in the movies. I can completely understand the feelings that you might experience when your girl simply acts disinterested and rejects the idea completely. I have a few tips that might help you to turn your girl from an innocent school girl into a sultry temptress in a matter of only a few weeks.
Why don’t women usually want to watch porn with their men?
I can only speak from personal experience here guys so you might want to also ask your girl what her reasons are. In my personal experience I have never enjoyed watching pornography with my male or female lovers. The reason I do not enjoy sharing porn with my partners is primarily a self esteem thing; I think this is also the case with most other average women. Frankly I’m not a bad looking girl for my age. I’m 26, average weight a little shorter than average, with very long naturally black hair. I however have not paid tens of thousands of dollars for plastic surgery, so my breasts don’t stand up at attention when I’m lying on my back. I have not had any children so my issues aren’t so much with stretch marks, but maybe your girlfriend/wife has that concern. To be completely honest, if you paid for several thousands of dollars worth of plastic surgery and diet coaches and exercise plans as well as paid your girl 4-9,000 dollars every time she fucked you and watched a porno with you, she would likely be more apt to do it! We average women do not look like the girls in your favorite porn video. Watching you watch other women have sex might even be offensive to your girl. Most of all women are bred into thinking that it is dirty to love sex and even more dirty to watch other people having sex.How can you make her more comfortable with porn?First of all do not ever hide the fact that you are watching porn. Often if you talk to your girl about the movies you are watching and why you are watching them she will be completely understanding of it. When you start hiding the movies or lying about it she can potentially begin to feel as if you are cheating or lying about it. Maybe you are watching porn because you have found that your romantic relationship is lacking the excitement it used to have. Well here is a news flash; if you are bored, she probably feels the same way. You can get her involved in porn in many ways. Personally I do not watch porn with my current boyfriend ever, even when I watch 12 consecutive hours of porn on the weekends and write about it for you guys. I truly do not want to watch my partner gawking at some super sexy girl on screen who may be 5 foot 9 and 115 pounds with long blonde hair. I am not delusional, I know she is attractive (of course I know, I’m looking at her too after all) I just don’t want to watch it. Instead I will watch all of the porn I want while he is out doing his own activities (he plays pool and softball as well as works). After he arrives home from whatever he was doing I’m plenty ready to jump all over him. He does not get mad that I’m watching it because he is always the one that benefits from it. I do not use porn as a replacement but rather as an addition to an already great relationship. Perhaps instead of asking your girl to watch the porn with you, you could just leave your favorite porn video up on your computer when you go to work and you know she has the day off. Once you know she is watching it on her own when you are not there you can start giving her pointers like, ‘Have you seen this video? You should watch it! There was a great oral sex scene I think would be something you might like’ then just go out. Her problem with porn might not be a problem with porn at all; maybe she just doesn’t want to do it in front of you for self esteem reasons.Encourage her to do it herself!Other girls are often afraid that their men will ask them to try to do some of the things that they see in the porn videos. Although it is certainly not bad to ask your girl to try something new, it can be a little scary or maybe she feels pressured when you ask her to try it while you are watching it, especially if the activity you have in mind is something she has never done before. If she is willing you might consider asking her to watch the video again when she is alone, and try some of those activities on her own. This is particularly true of anal sex with women. If your girl has either never had anal sex before, or maybe she has but her previous partner was smaller than you are she might be afraid to let you just stick it in there right away. If she is encouraged to masturbate, and you offer her the privacy with which to do it, she will most likely be watching your porno’s and touching herself all day while you are away at work or some other prearranged activity. If she is this type of girl, she will be ready to jump on you as soon as you get in from your long day. When she gets comfortable with certain activities in her own she will likely invite you to part take in them. She probablt won’t be comfortable with anal sex with you until she is comfortable with doing it alone. It’s important that when a girl tries something new that she is given full control of how much, how deep and for how long. After all, your girl is not a pornstar. She needs to gain experience in that area before you can start pounding her like a professional ass fucking machine. This is true of many things, whether it be oral sex, anal sex, or even threesomes with other men or women. No girl likes to be thrown into something for the first time and look and feel stupid because she doesn’t know what to expect. This is a very common reason for a girl to refuse sex or refuse to watch a porno with you. To get her excited you can consider buying her some discreet small sex toys, small vibrators and small dildos. I say small because you certainly don’t want to offend her by coming home with a super monster cock and give her the idea that you think her cunt is as big as the grand canyon! Once she uses those for a while she might open up a little bit more and start asking for bigger or more elaborate toys. By this point you’ve likely got a nymphomaniac on your hands. By now she has probably brought vibrators or dildos into bed while you are fucking her, just for the added pleasure. Take this girl shopping; show her some toys that you would like to watch her use. This is your chance to let her know what you would like to do and see and she can tell you what she thinks of it.As long as you encourage her to be open and never make her feel dirty for enjoying her own body and for being enthusiastic about sex with you or sex by herself she will open up and you will start to see a whole new girl.
Watching porn is only the beginning.
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