Bedroom Talk Sex is one of those intimate moments when every day life is stripped off to reveal the person inside. Or for some other person, depending on whether the couple in question is trying to act out a fantasy or play different roles than the usual ones. Bedroom talk can play a vital role in our lives because it shouldn’t be limited to “Roll over” and “Now let me on top”. This is part of the necessary communication, but talking can also be used to underscore passion and to give new twists to the situation. Whispering sweet words in your lover’s ear is sexy. Talking dirty to her is arousing in a delightfully nasty way.